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Oh the things I find on the Internet while waiting for trick or treaters.

Halloween: Live Blogging!

It’s Halloween! So I’m sitting downstairs, listening to NPR, Hattie is licking my head, and now I am attempting to prove how uncool I by live blogging Halloween! While folks come to my door, I’ll document it here as it happens. Stay tuned!

6:01 pm After realizing that the motion light out front was not on after seeing folks pass the house by, the light has been turned on.

6:03 pm First trick-or-treater of the night! A trio of three young girls with no costumes. Took a few handfuls of treats.

6:16 pm Four more, a grim reaper, a packer fan, a witch, and a no-costume. Surprisingly, Ulric has not been as barky as I thought he would be.

6:49 pm Another trick or treat! A few toddlers dressed as a super monkey, giraffe, tigger.

7:00 pm Two ghouls, Ulric in full barky mode

7:13 pm Group of 5, two young toddlers and a few middle school age. Mostly skeleton costumes. Got a shout out from one of the trick or treaters for supplying Nerds as a candy.

7:14 pm Out back-yard neighbor came by as another Tigger!

7:21 pm Teenagers attack! Well, came for treats at least. Good thing is they actually made an attempt to dress up. Well, all but 2 of ’em.

7:22 pm Wife comments on the bad spelling and grammar on the live blogging. Fixed up a few bits.

7:24 pm A farmer girl! Complete with little stuffed pig and spider

7:33 pm ELVIS! Had an Elvis (with a mic!), dancer, two witches, and a toddler as a chicken

7.41 pm ninja & witch. Ninja did not attempt to kill me for the candy. Was kind of a disappointment. Would have got more bonus points if I couldn’t see him and he appeared in a puff of smoke ninja style. That too much to ask?

7.42 pm buzz lightyear, two other middle-schoolers, and an infant as a lion. The infant made me forget what the other two middle schoolers were dressed up as

7.43 pm A princess and a witch! Witches are pretty popular this year

7.44 pm Broadway’s best playing on the laptop to give some background. They’re playing the complete cast recording of Phantom of the Opera. Good stuff for Halloween.

7.46 pm A gypsy and a pirate. Pirate vs. Ninja battle is now even at 1-1

7.54 pm Witch, pirate, and a factory. Yeppers, a gal dressed up as a factory. Mega points for originality. Bonus points as their dog was dressed up like a ghost too. Pirates now up 2-1 vs Ninja. Well, ninja that I have seen. They are tricky folks.

8.17 pm Two little fairies

8.27 pm Probably the last group of the night, 5 cold trick or treaters. How did I know they were cold? They had coats on over their costumes. It looked like some orange was involved somewhere in the costume, but the coat hides all.

8.30 pm Last call has been sounded, that wraps it up for Halloween 2007! I am off to go get a wicked sugar high off the left overs. :-)

My Favorite Thing(s)

Late again! Woot!

Well, Lucia gave me the idea for what I prize the most. It is my pet. Specifically, my pet’s ashes. :-(

For my birthday, I went dog sledding up in Minnesota. It was an amazing experience and I brought back a wonderful birthday gift, Medb.

She had a genetic disorder that shortened her life to a too-short 5 months. Her ashes are all we have left of her. I miss her so much, I can’t really write much more without crying.

Awesome Dog Poster

Caught this over on reddit.com. It’s a great poster for an awesome dog.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/sugarfreak/1715199256/

Tuesday Essay: My People

I’m late to the gun for the Tuesday Essay, Who are your people? I’ve been late since I’ve been spending a lot of time pondering this. When you spend 1 hour or more a day on the bus, you have a lot of thinking time. Thinking and looking over the past few years of my live, I’ve been scanning over the three main groups of friends I’ve had to see what it is about them that makes me fit in. Why the hell do I fit in with these folks when I have a hard time feeling connected to a group.

The first solid group I would consider my people are my camp friends from my years in Boy Scout camp. The twist on this is that by current Boy Scout standards, I would have been kicked out. By religious standards, I would be canned because I am an athiest. I don’t believe there is a god, but the scouts require the believe in something. Now while being an atheist, I still follow the scout law of being reverant in that I am tolerant of other’s religious beliefs. Religion is a fascinating topic and everyone should have the freedom to worship, or to choose to not worship, whatever or whoever they please. The other point that would give me a swift kick in the pants out the doors is that I think they have gone completely batty in their anti-gay stance. I think it’s closed minded and the arguments for it are pure phobia. There’s no reason to keep gays out of the scouts, or out of anywhere for that matter.

So what did connect me with my scout friends? A big thing is what I was accepted for who I was. I did not have to make any adjustments, it did not matter that at the time my family was breaking apart, it did not matter, that I was initially a touch shy, none of that mattered at all to my friends at camp. I was accepted, even praised, for who I was.

Even more than acceptance, they were also supportive. They wanted to help people, all people. Campers, staffers, parents, who ever walked in the door, we wanted to make them the best they could be. They helped me and others in hard times. They were one of the first times in my life I felt I had a solid support system under me.

The camp staff also opened me up to ideas and activities I would have never been exposed to outside of camp. The ability to present new areas and the helpful hand to help get started in those areas, that is something the staff did almost every day. Whether it was new music, new religions, new activities, new games, new books, new movies, or whatever came your way, there was room to grow and learn.

Those three main parts, acceptance, support, and growth I realized are common across all my main groups of friends over the years. My camp staff buddies, my high school band/geek friends, and my post-college friends. I can be accepted for who I am, I get the support I need to excel, and I can continue to grow. That is what I need in my people.

What drives this home for me is the friend or group cap in college. Timeline wise, my groups are pre-high school-college summers, high school, and post college. During college, I didn’t feel I had a core group of people I could call mine or identify with. I did have friends here and there that fit my people profile, but the friends themselves were all from different groups and did not themselves cross paths. In each group I was in, something was missing to make me feel like a solid part of the group or to make the group feel like it was my people. Some groups I did not feel wholly accepted, other groups were stagnant, and others I failed to feel a support network for neither myself or any of the group members. There was always something missing that kept me from feeling a core part of it.

Heading Back

FYI heading back to the old place come November.

New Verona Dog Park

The new dog park in Verona is a winner. The dogs certainly enjoyed it and I can’t recall a time I have seen so many people and dogs there. If you have a furry friend, go there. It’s a win for all.

Highlights:

• Entrances have a small "mudroom" like area to hook and unhook your dogs before letting them into the main part of the park


• Gravel walkways. Great for muddy times


• A few large, open areas that are kept mowed for the dogs to play in

Overall, it’s a good place to be a dog.

Heard Back

I heard back from the old place and I have an offer to go back. Pondering it over the weekend and making a final decision on Monday.

Note to Whatever-Poo owners

All you people with your she-poo, or whatever-poo puppies. You paid too much money for a mutt. They are not a breed, but a mutt. The breeder just took you for a ride and ripped you off.

If you want a pet and don’t need a specific breed for a specific use, why not rescue a dog from a shelter? The shelter does testing to make sure it will be ok in a home with pets, kids, or whatever. It’s a lot cheaper than a breeder too. They might have puppies too! Though I recommend getting an older dog. You won’t have to guess what their temperament is going to be, you already know!

For those in Dane county, check out the Dane County Humane Society. You can also checkout Petfinder to find a pet from a rescue group. I recommend the Twig Project. That’s were we got one of ours from.